How to understand if a man or a guy likes you

Some time after communicating in a friendly company or at work with a young man, the girl starts to  ask herself: how do you know if the guy likes me? How to understand if his attention is caused by a thrill of love, or you can only count on friendship?

According to some signs, each girl will be able to determine the intentions of a man in relation to herself. The main thing is to be able to catch the signals from the object of your secret dreams, because they are not always visible at the first sight.

What do gestures say?

Everyone knows a simple truth: the words of the interlocutor are not always sincere. Playing the role of your well-wisher, he may experience different feelings in his soul. Or, on the contrary: the guy does his best to pretend to be a tough macho, and his fingers nervously fiddle with the scarf and his eyes timidly ask: “Do you like me?” Therefore, in such a situation, pay attention to the gestures that accompany the words. Understanding their language, it is easy to understand how this person treats you.

It is easy to find out the attitude of a man by gestures. To do this, observe him when he is close, follow the movements of his body, hands, facial expression:

By chance, you were close to each other. The guy begins to mechanically straighten his clothes. These gestures will indicate that he wants to look attractive in your eyes.

If a girl and a young man who likes her are standing side by side and having a conversation, she needs to look at his posture: a man who likes a woman often unconsciously puts one leg forward, as if pointing to the object of his interest.

The guy, being next to the girl he likes, tries to look taller, so his body at this moment is slightly tense and stretched up.

When talking with a man, look at his face: if the eyebrows are slightly raised, as if expressing surprise, then the woman can be sure of what arouses his interest.

If, in your presence, a young man twists a ring on his finger or, while talking to you, fiddles with a button on a jacket, this means that he is overwhelmed with excitement, which he is trying to cope with. And this can already definitely serve as a sign that he has feelings for you.

Have you noticed that the guy is looking at you? Don’t worry, this is a simple demonstration that he is interested in you. 

When talking to you, a man rubs his chin or cheek with his hand, touches his eyes. In these gestures, you can see signs of his excitement and desire to please.

If a guy is standing with his hands on his belt, it means that he subconsciously wants to show his physical strength, as well as self-confidence. He wants to please the interlocutor.

Sometimes you can see that his eyebrow rises and falls. The guy does this, without noticing it, for a few seconds. This involuntary movement on his face is a sure sign that he is far from indifferent to you.

If a woman notices that a man is looking at her with parted lips and slightly widened nostrils, she can be sure that her appearance caused his admiration.

A man smooths his hair or makes it shaggy. This gesture indicates that he is trying to look more attractive.

Feeling the cool breeze, the guy offers you his jacket or sweater. Know that he considers you his woman and is ready to protect you.

You can be sure that you are his beloved woman if during the conversation he unconsciously repeats your gestures. For example: you take a phone out of your purse, he immediately mechanically takes his mobile phone out of his pocket, and so on. These gestures are a clear sign that he really likes you.

To finally be sure that the guy is not indifferent to you, you should conduct a small experiment: ask him for a small favor or for help in some business. If a young man accepts this with joy, then you should no longer doubt the sincerity of his feelings!

What does the look say

The language of gestures, facial expressions and movements can tell a lot. But people say that the eyes are the mirror of the soul. His look can be very eloquent. It can replace a whole conversation, express joy and sadness, love and hate. So how can you understand from the look of a loved one his attitude towards yourself? What can you read in his eyes?

A main signal that characterizes a guy’s sensitivity to a girl is a change in the shape of the pupils: when a young man is excited, his pupils increase significantly. And if a guy likes a girl, then when he meets her, his pupils become larger.

If his gaze is focused on the forehead, then he has only business interest. And if he turns his gaze from her eyes to her lips and back, it means that he starts falling in love with her.

Let’s say your eyes met by accident. If a young man detains it, or, conversely, takes it away very quickly, then we can say that he has feelings for you.

Being in a common company, he is constantly looking for you visually. Or, after telling everyone a funny story out loud, he quickly glances at you to see if you are laughing with everyone. This suggests that he is not indifferent to you!

You are the reason for his worries

If you see clear signs of excitement in a man when you start communicating or flirting with him, then there is no reason to doubt. You made an impression on him, and he cannot hide it from you and from the rest of the people around him. Why does a young man lose the thread of the conversation or talk too much, starts twirling objects in his hands, then sits down, then gets up when you are nearby? The answer is obvious. It is unlikely that any of your friends experience excitement in your presence. The guy is clearly not indifferent!

A smile will brighten everyone

Even when he is not in the best mood, he blooms with a smile at the sight of you. Not every girl who appears in the radius of his location causes such a reaction in him. You are the one who is capable of this. He smiles at you sincerely demonstrating the pleasure of your appearance. Of course, friends are always happy to see us. Yet joy based on companionship is difficult to confuse with joy based on affection.

The place for a meeting can not be changed

Circumstances begin to develop in such a way that you seem to accidentally meet him here and there. You suddenly find him on your way home after work. Or you can see him at the supermarket. Or he offers to give you a ride there. He looks for any opportunity to accidentally meet you, and uses any excuse to spend at least a few minutes together.

He suddenly has a hundred reasons to be near you. And you, of course, have no reason to refuse him in communication, right? Friendship meetings are less frequent and usually scheduled – going to the cinema or to the club together brings you together. But someone who likes you a lot uses every opportunity to be around for an extra minute.

Name, say her name

He often speaks directly to you, no matter how many people are around you. Doing this, he will definitely pronounce your name, as if distinguishing you from everyone else.

If there are several girls with the same name in the company, the inspired guy begins to come up with nicknames for you.

Thus, he shows that you are a special girl for him, unlike others. Friends tend to communicate equally with everyone in the company, not highlighting anyone.Remember this!

Touch

You will stop asking yourself  “if a guy likes me” when you start noticing that he wants to close the distance between you and tries to touch you. When a girl is attracted to a young man, he involuntarily seeks ways to touch her.

Attention, you are a special onel

The man is nice and polite to other women, and nothing more. He can even be so gallant that he compliments the ladies around him. But all this is within the framework of friendly communication. With you, he flirts and lures, jokes and just chatters.

Gallantry has boundaries: he will offer you and even pour tea, showing concern, and other ladies most likely should not expect such an initiative from him. Why is this happening? He likes you, but the other girls does not. He can only offer them friendship.

Words and conversations

The man listens to you attentively if you start to tell him about something. Surprisingly, you haven’t had such a great listener for a long time. Sometimes it seems to you that he is even ready to listen to the difference in shades of lipstick endlessly. When you feel like keeping quiet, a guy in love will always tell a story that you’ll be interested in.

Common interests

Did you tell him about the book you recently read? He’s also read it and wants to discuss with you the peculiarities of the plot sharing his impressions. Did you accidentally mention that you haven’t been to the cinema for a long time? The man invites you to the premiere of the film. Is he going to play football with his friends? And he invites you to cheer him and his team, then to celebrate the victory with a cup of delicious cappuccino in a cozy cafe.

His help

Entertainment isn’t the only sign that a young person has more than friendly feelings for you. If he likes you, then he tries to help when he sees that you need it. Got a license, but no driving experience? He teaches you how to park, accompanies you to a technical station, or offers to keep you company on an upcoming trip to the country. And if you get sick, he will visit you and bring you a bag of lemons and honey. He sincerely wants to help and support you. If you are a colleague, he will help you cope with numerous office equipment or install new apps necessary for work. He is always pleased to help you or provide a service.

I am the best

To pique your interest, a guy may start telling stories about himself that show him in a positive way. If you have no reason to suspect him of self-praise, and the stories are real, then think about it. Communication with each other helps to bring people closer together. And to those we like, we always strive to tell more about ourselves than other people.

Compliments

Does the man say pleasant words to you and notice even small changes in hairstyle, makeup, manicure, clothes? There is no doubt that he likes you. We only give compliments to those we like. Therefore, there are fewer thoughts about whether he likes you or not, and more self-confidence. Return the favor letting him know that you enjoy his actions. 

Duty and neutral compliments towards other women indicate that he is well-mannered. There is no need to immediately think that the guy by nature is just Casanova. It is worth pondering only if he makes compliments in order to charm all the ladies in his immediate environment. For such a man, there is no difference between women.

I have no more questions

Still, sincere and genuine interest is hard to miss. If a man likes you, then he will let you understand this. Even in our time of open feminism, there are still men who take the first step. When you meet one like this on your way, the question of whether he likes you or not will not even visit your head. Because the answer will be obvious.

The main thing that needs to be done in this situation is to remain yourself, to accept his signs of attention with pleasure. After all, men are so happy that their feelings are not unrequited. Smile more often, someone might fall in love with your smile!