What are kisses for?
Knowing how to kiss passionately correctly is very important, but one should not forget about the moral component.You can get pleasure from kisses passionately only when touching is pleasurable.In this case, after such a kiss, you can experience a feeling of disgust and for a long time lose the desire to let the next partner come to you.
With the help of touch, people have been expressing their attitude towards each other since ancient times. Lip touching has always been considered the most touching and intimate. It is an expression of affection, love and passion.
Kisses are different from each other.
- there are those who show a friendly disposition;
- sometimes lips are applied to the cheek and just out of politeness;
- access to the lips is allowed only to close people, and deep kisses show passion.
Preparing for a kiss
For many people, the first kiss is a revelation. And if it fails, this can break a life. Uncertainty in the next relationship will be present and interfere with enjoying intimacy with a partner.
Therefore, you should tune in to kisses. And not only morally.
- Your teeth must be brushed. If the desire to kiss appears in the morning you need to make sure that there is no smell from the mouth. This can be done with chewing gum. Immediately before kissing, it is required to spit it out.
- It is desirable that the lips are pleasant to touch. For this, they should not be weathered. It is easy to achieve this – take care of your lips and do not lick in the cold and during a strong wind.
- Protect your lips from the sun with a moisturizing lipstick in summer, and a thermal protective lipstick in winter.
- Before kissing a partner, you need to try to understand by touch whether he is ready for a kiss. To do this, it is sometimes necessary to touch the shoulder, arm, try to hug him, bring him closer to the intimate space.
- And you definitely need to look into his eyes. If the gaze is averted or completely turned away, then the ability to kiss may not be useful.
It is not always necessary to learn to kiss in advance. Sometimes the first timid kiss is more enjoyable than the experienced touch on the lips. It all depends on the relationship and mood.
Learning to kiss
After the relationship moves to a new quality level, comes the desire to kiss passionately. Such an intimate touch gives pleasure, arouses desire. The main thing is to understand whether the partner wants the same. It is easy to make sure of this: if, after touching the lips they are half opened, you can safely proceed to the action called “French kiss”. This name is much more beautiful than “passionate kiss”.
How to learn to kiss passionately? Many advisors recommend practicing on a ripe tomato – to increase the pressure of the tongue in order to push through the thin skin, and then try to suck the juice and at the same time the tongue should penetrate into the fruit.
Others advice training with persimmon, discerning tongue deeper and deeper under the thin shell.
There is a sense in these tips: with the help of some language practice, you will really learn to master it. But with direct contact with a partner, technique often fades. Your partner’s reactions will tell you how to act with your tongue and lips when you kiss passionately, better than any advisor.
And yet you need to imagine what is required, from a technical point of view, during a French kiss.
Kiss algorithm
- If a partner opens his lips while touching them, you should use the tip of your tongue to touch his tongue.
- The tongue is pulled to the side and an attempt is made to penetrate deeper into the partner’s mouth.
- It is desirable to intertwine your tongues.
- If shallow penetration is more pleasant for the partner, then it is enough to act on the lips from the inside with the tip of your tongue, lick the tip of his tongue, tickle it with your own.
- When completing a kiss, you should not abruptly withdraw your head. It is advisable to move your tongue over your lips, gently bite them “goodbye”, stay at the distance of your breath, cheek to cheek.
How do you know if he liked the kiss?
Sometimes the partner does not want to offend his partner by the fact that he did not like the process of deep penetration, and then avoids meetings. How to understand this in advance? Only by reaction.
Kissing passionately is not necessarily “blind.” When this happens for the first time, you need to pay attention to how your partner is behaving.
If he-she is relaxed and allows intimate touching, breathing is intermittent, deep, heart beats often, then the partner probably liked the kiss.
It happens that the partner breaks free, trying to finish the process as soon as possible, is taken for false modesty. When the body is tense, the lips are trying to compress – it means that the kiss is not pleasant, or it was not at the right time. When the action itself turns out to be unpleasant, then it is simply “not your person”, and there is no need to be upset.
It is also very important. Intimate touches are intimate because there are no traces after them. There is no need to leave a suction on the lip, a rolling bruise on the cheek or chin, and lips bitten to blood. Let the lips be bright and inviting after kisses, and that only a spark in the eyes testifies to the fact that they have only recently come off from each other. This is direct evidence that a kissing relationship will not end.
